Laurel A. (Hafer) Thompson, 64, Potsdam

POTSDAM -- With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of a remarkable woman whose life was a testament to love, compassion, and selflessness. Laurel A. (Hafer) Thompson, 64, left this world suddenly on January 27th, leaving behind a legacy of kindness that will forever be engraved in our hearts. Laurie was the daughter of the late Dr. Paul E. Hafer and Genevieve (Henry) Hafer.

Born in Ogdensburg, on March 1, 1959, Laurie dedicated her life to helping others, embodying the true spirit of generosity and empathy. She began her working life in the Potsdam Nursing Home alongside her treasured Aunt Mary “Mamie” Hourihan. She left healthcare in 1987 to begin a 29-year career as a Job Coach with St. Lawrence-Lewis BOCES, helping individuals with special needs to find jobs of their own. Never shying away from a little sweat or grime, she worked side by side her students to help them learn, occasionally in some not so glamorous places, and gain their independence at job sites around the North Country.

Whether it was a comforting word, a helping hand, or a shoulder to lean on, she always extended warmth and love to those in need. Her compassion knew no bounds, and she touched countless lives with her kindness.

Family and friends were Laurie's world. Having built her home between her parent’s and brother’s home, family literally surrounded her throughout her entire life. Her recent retirement allowed her to spend more time with her mom and siblings. There was never a dull moment on “Hafer Hill”.

She reveled in the joy of spending time with her loved ones, laughing, and creating cherished memories that will be forever etched in the hearts of those fortunate enough to have known her. As a devoted wife, Laurie shared a special bond with her husband of 24 years, James V. Thompson Jr. He affectionately referred to her as “Vern” from the start. They created a lifetime of beautiful memories, especially during their camping and kayaking adventures at Higley Flow, tapping maple trees every spring, and the warmth of many a bonfire surrounded by their close-knit family. She was typically the life of the party with her antics and storytelling.

A truly one-of-a-kind individual, Laurie possessed a memory that seemed almost unreal. Her ability to recall and share stories, reminisce about the past, and connect the threads of history was unparalleled. She was a living encyclopedia of cherished moments, making every gathering an opportunity to relive the joys of the past. Many of which resulted in laughing until there were tears of joy.

Laurie was predeceased by her father, Dr. Paul E. Hafer, and brothers Edward (Ted) Hafer and Paul (PJ) Hafer. She is survived by her mother, Genevieve Hafer; sister Marcy(Hafer) Ramsay (Will Thomas), brother Matthew Hafer (Mary Kay) and several nieces and nephews. Among her greatest joys in life were her husband James Thompson Jr., her three daughters, Tommiann (Joseph) Russell, Kallie (Jason) Whalen, and Madelyn (Evan) Thompson. She leaves behind her five beloved grandchildren.

She wholeheartedly embraced her role as “Oma”, never one to deny a popsicle or fruit snacks, when asked, or the opportunity to lead a snake hunt in the field. Her birthday cake frosting is going to be impossible to duplicate. Laurie poured love, wisdom, and laughter into the lives of Josephine and Thomas Russell, and Benjamin, Theodore and Kennedy Whalen. Oma's presence was a constant source of comfort and joy, creating a bond that will transcend time.

In celebrating Laurie’s life, let us remember the warmth of her smile, the echo of her laughter, the kindness in her heart, and the love she freely gave to all. Donations may be made in Laurie’s name to the American Red Cross or the Indian Creek Nature Center. As a longtime blood donor, reaching the donation milestone of 5.5 gallons herself (something she was quite proud of!) Laurie would encourage others to give the gift of life first and monetary donations second. Donations can also be used to support the Indian Creek Nature Center (PO Box 286, Canton, NY 13617) that her father helped to create.

Calling hours will be Thursday, February 1st from 3-7pm at Garner’s Funeral Home in Potsdam. A burial and celebration of life will be held later in the spring.

Condolences for Laurel Anne Thompson can be shared at www.garnerfh.com.