In response to "Courage to speak out" which appeared in the Dec. 13-19 issue of North Country This Week the writer says: "If a man sexually harasses a woman, he deserves to have his life ruined!" Do you think the same is true for women who sexually harass men? It seems most women follow the dress styles of scanty or form fitting clothes. Do you realize how much power the sight of a woman's body has over a man's senses? Men are continually harassed by the abundance of provocatively dressed women. Yes, it is devastating when men use women just to fulfill their lust; and it can happen to discreetly dressed and behaved women. But please, all you women and girls out there; show compassion and respect for the men and boys by not advertising your physical body. It will be easier for them to respect you. Also, you will have more respect for yourself.