This is to all you married or single men over 30 out there. Hands off! We women are not impressed or flattered by you putting your arms around us or touching us at all when you try to flirt and hang on us! The older you get, the grosser it is. Stop putting your arm around us, stop trying to show how cool and charming you are because you’re not. We women have more respect for a man who respects us enough to carry on a conversation with out the touching. It is even more un-cool when you are over 40 and 50. Grow up and show some respect! I work in a place with all woman and you cannot believe the men who come in and think they can charm you by hanging on you. Not cool! How rude and disrespectful to your wives, too.