Is anyone else sick and tired of hearing about the debate over same sex marriages? The money and effort going into this topic seems ridiculous to me. I am for "be with whom ever you love". I have a hard time calling same gender relationships a marriage. A civil union, yes. Marriage is between a man and a woman, says the bible. I have nothing against gay people. There are several relationships where the couple decide to never get married, what do you call that?? People ought to be with whom ever they want to be with without being judged. I just think certain topics get way too much attention, and this is one of them. This country has way too many other issues to attend to that seem just a little more important!